Spent 4 hours ast night trying to find it... HELP! Please! Before my sanity wanders further from me!!!
Been there, done that. My sympathies! I hope you've found it by now. Allakhazam
has been my bible - it's recently been changed to the Zam
site that Kwee mentioned above. I also use the wiki site that Brasse mentioned. Both are good, and sometimes you can get different info from each site on the same quest. I'd suggest using both!
They both have search boxes on the main page - Zam's is at the very top, can't miss it, and when you get to the quest write-up, be sure to check the 'comments' tab. Sometimes the user comments are more helpful than the actual quest write-up. Wiki has comments too, sometimes, but a bit harder to find.
You didn't mention what server you're on. I'm on Crushbone. If you happen to be on the same one, feel free to add me to your friends list (Carynne or Castalia are my two main characters) and bombard me with questions if you see me logged in.